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Re: Amber's Bath
« Reply #105 on: January 29, 2017, 05:04:51 pm »
Jackson
*go to bed, lays in bed sobbing*

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Re: Amber's Bath
« Reply #106 on: January 29, 2017, 05:06:18 pm »
Goes to my room and just sits on my bed thinking about Amber Jackson is really it hindering her self Growth and development bad thT just really upsets me

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« Reply #107 on: January 29, 2017, 05:16:02 pm »
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*walk to Ms. China's room and stand at her doorway, not bothering to hide my tears*  "What do you want me to do?  I told her that she wasn't really stupid and helpless, but she didn't seem to understand.  I try to be happy for her for being able to do things but I can't."

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« Reply #108 on: January 29, 2017, 05:39:24 pm »
Well you should be you know that in this world she gonna have to grow up she can't be a child forever what about when she hits 18 years old? She gonna have to get. A job get a house get a car and all that you know why? Because that's the only way she will survive. And you know how she gonna do those things? It's all about how she grows up its about her childhood. Right now she is in a place where she will Learn skills that she need to succeed at life bathing and dressing and even fixing a sandwich are things that are essential for her to know she gonna learn to be self reliant weather you like it or not. And you already know this stuff so I don't know why you acting like you don't. In this world we live in you have no choice but to learn to do things yourself. And you walking around here like you just are hurt that she learned to put her clothes on and take a bath Be happy about it! It's life skills that she needs

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« Reply #109 on: January 29, 2017, 07:40:06 pm »
"I'll support her when we're grown up.  She won't need to take care of herself.  I want to be proud of her but, well...., your doing something for her that I can't and I'm jealous." 

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Re: Amber's Bath
« Reply #110 on: January 29, 2017, 07:50:05 pm »
Jackson you need to let her be herself and learn to do things for herself if you can't learn to be happy for Amber learning to do things herself then that means you gonna really hurt her in the long run I'm not gonna stand by and watch you hinder her self growth that's not gonna happen I don't know why you jealous you a kid be a kid

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« Reply #111 on: January 29, 2017, 07:54:21 pm »
"Because you can teach her how to do things for herself, which I can't, and she's developing affection toward you."

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Re: Amber's Bath
« Reply #112 on: January 29, 2017, 08:07:55 pm »
Of course she is because she never had a adult to love her well in a mothers role I know your dad used too love both of y'all but it's ok for her to open up to other people that really love her I really really love Amber and you too that's why it upsets me so much that you are really holding her back the way you are

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Re: Amber's Bath
« Reply #113 on: January 29, 2017, 08:22:24 pm »
"I'm sorry I'm such a bad brother.  I'll try to be better."

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Re: Amber's Bath
« Reply #114 on: January 29, 2017, 08:25:12 pm »
I mean you would be good if you just stop trying to control her she don't need that

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« Reply #115 on: January 29, 2017, 08:35:01 pm »
"I'm sorry."

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Re: Amber's Bath
« Reply #116 on: January 29, 2017, 08:57:17 pm »
Just go to sleep Jackson you can show me if you sorry by explaining to Amber that you are not her parent and she don't gotta look to you for everything you hurting her more then you helping her

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« Reply #117 on: January 29, 2017, 10:35:18 pm »
"I can try."

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Re: Amber's Bath
« Reply #118 on: January 29, 2017, 10:36:08 pm »
Ok now it's way past your bed time good night

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Re: Amber's Bath
« Reply #119 on: January 30, 2017, 10:22:26 pm »
Jackson
*go to bed*