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outside => barn => Topic started by: neigh on January 29, 2017, 10:43:56 am
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Amber
*walk up to the horses, stork Mickey's nose*
Jackson, Ms. Womzie, Kevin, Jenny
*all crowded around, watching Amber*
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Walks to the barn* Jackson come here
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Jackson
*walks up to her, but keeps on eye on Amber* "What?"
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You told Amber she can play with the horses but I still didn't hear that apology
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Jackson
"I will, I promise, when there's not so many people around"
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Okay. Go ahead and go watch Amber ms womzie out there to do she will make sure Amber is ok
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Jackson
"Okay" *turns and walks back to watch Amber*
Amber and Jenny
*standing by the fence and petting all the horses*
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*goes back to the kitchen and cleans up after lunch*
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Amber
*make Horsie nuzzle Olaf, and then Mickey and Jewel*
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Looks out the window and smiles seeing Amber play with the horses
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Ms. Womzie
"Amber, would you like to ride?"
Amber
*looks excited*
Jackson
"No. That's too dangerous. You could fall off."
Amber
*shake head*
Ms. Womzie
*sigh, trying to think of what to do*
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Walks out to the barn with out them knowing and just listens to the conversation
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Ms. Womzie
"Jackson, you can walk next to her while she's riding, so she can't fall off."
Jackson
"It's still too dangerous."
Ms. Womzie
"No it's not. It shouldn't be your decision anyway."
Jackson
"Well it is. Amber believes it to be."
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Wanting to go in there but doesn't just listens hoping that Amber makes the decision herself*
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Amber
"It's okay Jackson, I won't ride until you say it's okay."
Ms. Womzie
"sees Ms. China, give her a look that says to please help*
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Sighs* *gives ms womzie a look that says try to handle it* *tjinking I don't wanna be the only strict adult in this house *
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Ms. Womzie
"How about we take Olaf out, and you can lead him around the arena."
Amber
*looks at Jackson*
Jackson
*nods, okay*
Amber
*nods, excitedly*
Ms. Womzie
*goes and gets the halter and lead rope* "Kevin, Jenny you two can saddle up Mickey and Jewel and ride around the arena if you want." *hoping I can eventually change Jackson's mind*
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Just watches*
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Ms. Womzie
"Amber, kids have to wear helmets to work with the horses. It's really unnecessary, but it's just a rule. Jackson, you might want to wear one too, if your going to be with her."
Amber and Jackson
*go up to her*
Ms. Womzie
*get helmets on them*
Kevin and Jenny
*grab the helmets we usually use*
Ms. Womzie
*goes and halter Olaf* "I'll bring him into the arena and then you can lead him." *lead him into the arena*
Kevin
*helter Jewel, lead her into the barn, hitch her up and start tacking her up*
Jenny
*do the same with Mickey*
Ms. Womzie
*show Amber how to hold the lead rope, and hand it to her*
Amber
*tuck Horsie under my arm, and take it, carefully step forward*
Jackson and Ms. Womzie
*walk beside her*
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Walks into the arena and looks at the kids don't say anything but just observes
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Amber
*walk around, leading Olaf, and realize that I am controlling this big pony with nothing but a rope*
Ms. Womzie
*smiles, at the expression on her face*
Jackson
*walk right next to he, worried that the pony will try hurt her, but he's not*
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Walks over to ms womzie.... Why isn't she riding the horse like the other kids I whisper to her
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Ms. Womzie
"I suggested that, but Jackson was worried that she would fall off and said no, so then she did too. I'm hoping this might help with that."
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*looks really frustrated*
Every time Amber is about to do something she wants to do Jackson just stops her like seriously Amber better learn that if the adults say it's ok then it's fine Jackson is 11 years old he is not an adult and Amber better learn to stop doing stuff just bc Jackson says so both of them about to start getting in trouble for that crap *i say to ms womzie where only she can hear me because I'm super frustrated*
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Ms. Womzie
"Well, she is used to him being in charge of her, and so is he. I assume it will get better, but for now it's just hard for them."
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Well he not in charge of her anymore I am. I'm gone break them from that if it's the last thing that i do
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Ms. Womzie
"Good for you. I wasn't going to push this until Jackson's seen how riding the horses is perfectly safe."
Kevin
*bring Jewel up to mounting block and mount her, start off walking*
Jenny
*bring Mickey up to the mounting block, hand him to Ms. Womzie, climb on*
Ms. Womzie
*adjust her strippers for her* "Go ahead."
Jenny
*starts off at a walk*
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Looks at amber* Amber I know you want to ride the horses so you are going to ride it like right now if you choose to listen to Jackson just because he says no then you can go in the house and not be around the horses at all until you make up your mind your self to ride the horses as long as there is adult supervision. You are safe you can ride the horse ms womzie will help you
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Kevin and Jewel
*trot*
Amber
*looks at Ms. China and then at Jackson, scared*
Jackson
*not wanting to tear her away* "Fine, but only at a walk, and me and Ms. Womzie have to be next to you the whole time."
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See you still looking for Jackson approval and that's just not gonna work for me I said you can decide yourself if u gonna ride and I did mean yourself I didn't say look to Jackson so you can go in the house
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Amber
*burst into tears*
Jackson
*yells* "That's not fair to her."
Kevin
"Mom, may I go on a trail ride?"
Ms. Womzie
"Of course, sweetie, but take Jenny with you. Jenny, want to go on a trail ride with Kevin?"
Jenny
"I can go on a trail ride without you?"
Ms. Womzie
"Sure, your a really strong rider, and your riding Mickey, my most trusted mount."
Jenny, Kevin, Jewel, Mickey
*leave*
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She can go in the house cuz I'm gonna break her from that always gotta be okay with you stuff that's not gone work
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Jackson
"It's not her fault. She doesn't know any better."
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Well she gone learn she smart enough to pick up
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Ms. Womzie
*take Olaf*
Amber
*cries*
Ms. Womzie
"It's alright sweetie. You can ride tomorrow, if you ask right?"
Jackson
*wrap arms around Amber*
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Yup she can ride anytime she decides to ask for herself
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Looks at Jackson in annoyance when mom tells her she gotta go inside Jackson you're not the boss of Amber leave her alone she wants to ride the horses then she can
Amber stick up for yourself!
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Just keeps petting one of the horses yeah Amber you really should stand up for your self I say agreeing with bri
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Still sitting by the barn just watching everyone interact with the horses and listening to the conversation I add my 2 cents in too
Yeah Amber you should just say you gonna ride the horses If you want to I mean it's a adult out here so u being watched tell Jackson to just Shutup and let you have fun it's ok to say that to him he is just your brother *i shurg* it only matters if adults tell you no well really mommy cuz she has really the last say in everything
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Sitting by Aamiya I just look at Amber and gives her a nod yeah my sisters are right and I think they are trying to help you not be in trouble so you might just wanna go ahead and tell Jackson you gonna ride the horse because you want to if you don't I don't think mommy is Gonna let you play with the horses ever again
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Okay kids I don't think she needs your help stay out of it please
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Jackson
*take Amber' s hand, start to lead her out when the girls come in and start butting in, scoff and lead her out, and into the house, crouch down in front of her* "Amber, your not really dumb and helpless. I just told you that to get you to listen to me."
Amber
*looks at him in shock, unsure if I can believe what he's saying*
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Walks in the house about to tell Jackson to let her go but heard the convo and just stands there and listen without them knowing
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Jackson
"I'm sorry I'm such a bad big brother."
Amber
*shakes head*
Jackson
*suddenly get an idea* "Yes I am. I'm the worst big brother ever, and you'll never..."
Amber
*yell* "No your not. Your the best brother ever!" *hug him*
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*rolls my eyes seeing exactly what Jackson is doing but just stands there and listen still to see where this is going*
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Jackson
*hug her, release her, and beam* "and your the best little sister ever, who can defend me and therefore should be able to defend herself"
Amber
*gasp*
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*Shakes my head still not saying anything*
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Amber
*shakes head*
Jackson
"You know what. I've changed my mind. I don't want you riding, ever."
Amber
"But... please."
Jackson
*decided that that's good enough, since it's the closest she's ever come to questioning a command of mine, smile* "Sure, as soon as you ask Ms. China."
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*gives Jackson a look that says I know exactly what you just did*
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Amber
*hesitate, seeing Ms. China, wanting to ask if I can ride, but she look annoyed*
Jackson
"Ms. China, can I talk to you in private please. We'll be right back Amber." *As soon as we're alone, I look at her with confusion.* "Did I do something wrong?"
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Jackson I was sitting there listening to what you were saying to Amber at first u was doing good then you tried to reverse it so u told her you don't want her to ride unless she asks me which means she gonna ask just because she thinks that's what you want her to do because you basically said it just not directly I caught on fast
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Don't try to out think me I see right through what you did you just want to tell her to do stuff just in different ways but I need Amber to do it herself not have any direction from you so until she just ask to do it with absolutely no push from you then and only then will she be allowed to go near the horses as of now she won't be out there for a couple of days
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Jackson
*looks shocked* "But, I just wanted her to do it. You can't punish her for something that I did anyway. That would be like our mother, punishing her for no reason."
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No it's not for no reason the reason is she needs to learn she is not to take orders from you and you need to learn stop telling her what to do even in different ways I can see right threw it
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You even just said you just wanted her to do it so that means you knew what you were doing then when she started talking back to you you tried to stop it Jackson I can see what you doing don't think I can't. So until you stop doing what you doing I guess you will make her not be able to do stuff because you just try to tell her what to do and that's not gonna work for me. So I guess this is a lesson to you too that what you continue to do it affects what Amber gets to doo so I guess you have thinking to do on how you can fix it because what you just did you just made Amber not allowed to be with the horses for a couple days.. And I'm kinda upset about that because tomorrow all the kids were supposed to have day for Olaf it's his birthday so we was gonna have a animal theme party and different small ponies and other horses were gonna be brought over and a little petting zoo all that but I guess Amber can't participate
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Shakes my head* hmm and I know Amber would have enjoyed it at least she would have loved to see the small pony and pet the little animals in the petting zoo and everything *shrugs*
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Jackson
"Please let her. I'm sorry."
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You wanna fix it the go tell Amber exactly what you did I'll be listening to see what you say
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Jackson
*go back into the room with Amber* "I'm sorry Amber."
Amber
"For what?"
Jackson
"I tried to get you to stand up for yourself, and question something that I told you, and then I told you what to do."
Amber
"So?"
Jackson
"So, you don't have to do everything I tell you to."
Amber
"I like obeying you. I'm a good girl."
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Listens*
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Jackson
*smiles* "yes you are"
Amber
*smiles*
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But you aren't allowed to do what Jackson says anymore Amber only me ms womzie or mr.whites
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Amber
*scared and confused* "Why?"
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I told you this before and I meant it when I said it, Jackson is not an adult children do not obey other children in this house only adults.
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Amber
"Jackson, is that okay?"
Jackson
"I'm worried that if I answer you, we'll both get in trouble."
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See Amber you still asking Jackson if it's ok you gonna get in trouble if you keep asking for Jacksons approval of things
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Amber
"But I'm his little girl."
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No you not you his little sister that's it and that's all and that's the last time you are ever allowed to say that you are his little girl you can say little sister because that's what you are.
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Amber
*looks down and sinks to the floor*
Jackson
*sit down beside her, and wrap arms around her*
Amber
*crawl into Jackson's lap, and lean against his chest*
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Well you can get used to it
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Amber
*shake head and start crying*
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You will be ok
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Amber
*keeps crying*
Jackson
"I don't know that she will."
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Well she gone have to no over options
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Jackson
*sighs* "It's going to be okay Amber."
Amber
*looks up at him* "you promise?"
Jackson
"Yes."
Amber
*whip tears away with Horsie*
Jackson
"Do you want to go and do something fun?"
Amber
"Can I go out and see the horses again?"
Jackson
*look at Ms. China*
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If u can find ms womzie to be out there with you then yes
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Amber
"Can I ride?"
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Looks at her* I guess
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Amber
*rush outside*
Jackson
*follow*
Amber
"Ms. Womzie, Ms. China says I can ride."
Ms. Womzie
*smile* "Good, let's get Olaf ready for you."
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Pulls Jackson back gently* nope you can't be out here
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Jackson
"Why not?"
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You know why. You gonna be out here trying to tell her what to do go in the house
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Jackson
"Fine then."
Amber
*sees Jackson go back inside, rush inside*
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Grabs ber* either u ride these horses or you will not be allowed to ever be out here with them again your choice
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Amber
*start sobbing* "I just want Jackson to come with me."
Jackson
*wrap arm around her and lead her back outside*
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Picks Amber up* no you go and enjoy the horses Jackson is not allowed to be outside right now. Go out there now if u don't you won't be outside for a long time it's your choice choose wisely
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Amber
*sinks to the floor, sobbing*
Jackson
"She is five years old. Why are you so hard on her?"
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She's gonna learn. Now Amber I'm gonna count to 3 and I need your answer are you going to go outside or are you not going out for a long time ?? 1
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Amber
*get up and take Jackson's hand, start leading him to the barn*
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Amber you are going to get a spanking if you walk out there door. Let Jacksons hand go and answer my question
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Amber
"I'm going outside with Jackson."
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I just told you Jackson is not allowed outside. Now are you going outside now or will you not be going out for a long time?
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Amber
*starts sobbing even hard, as I head toward the door*
Jackson
*wrap arm around her and pull her back, hoping to direct Ms. China's anger back at me*
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Jackson let her go she will decide what she going to do Amber before you go outside you will tell me if that is your decision. Are you going out to enjoy the horses? Or will you not go and stay inside for a long time
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Amber
"I want to see the horses." *start fighting Jackson's grasp, but not having any luck*
Jackson
*continue holding her*
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Jackson let her go right now *gets Amber from him and lets her go outside
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Amber
*rush back to the barn*
Ms. Womzie
*smiles* "I figured you'd be back. I just finished tacking Olaf up for you. Once we get you helmet on, we can go out to the arena."
Jackson
*watch Amber go, and then look over at Ms. China*
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You can just go to your room or something you need to learn you not in charge of Amber around here
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Jackson
"I just want to be with her."
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Not right now you going to hinder her fun by being out there. You can go ahead and go upstairs
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Jackson
"What makes you think that?"
Ms. Womzie
*help Amber put her helmet on, lead Olaf out into the arena*
Amber
*walk beside her, excited*
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You always do you go out there you will tell her she not safe or something she will be hesitant to follow the adult out the instructions because you out there gone cause to many problems
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Jackson
"Well safety is more important then fun."
Ms. Womzie
"Would you like me to lift you on, or would you like to get on by yourself with the mounting block?"
Amber
"life me"
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Duhhhh that's why an adult is out there with her to make sure she safe and having fun. End of story.
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Jackson
"who I don't know if I can trust"
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I have tried super hard to get u to trust me but you not trying to open up so I can't continue to talk I just gotta do what I have to do as the adult that's in charge.
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Jackson
*glare at her, thinking that I was starting to trust her, but she's not the one who's out with Amber*
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All adults here are trustworthy
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Jackson
"That's hard to believe, as I know that most adults aren't."
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Well you are in a whole different environment then you were in before here I make sure that the adults in this house are good. So what you believe is something I can't change but I will change the fact that you will be a child and stay in a child's place here. And that's all I have to say *walks away and goes to wash dishes watching Amber have fun out the window*
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Ms. Womzie
*lift Amber onto Olaf, help her get her feet in the stirrups, lead him at a walk*
Amber
*feeling the movement of the sweet swelling horse beneath me, smile*
Jackson
*sneak out the door*
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*sees Jackson going outside I walk to him and pul him back in* you se not allowed to be out side
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Jackson
*yells in anger and frustration* "That's not fair."
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Shrugs life isn't fair
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Jackson
"Well I already knew that much."
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Good so go to your room
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Jackson
"Why?"
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Because you can't be outside
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Jackson
*walks to bedroom, and slams the door*
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Walks up to his room and opens the door
We do not slam doors in this house. If you would like to close the door you may do so gently of you are not willing to do it gently then you can keep the door open
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Jackson
*glare at her*
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You slam it again and I will take this door off completely your room won't have a door at all understand?
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Jackson
"I guess."
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Ok good *walks away*