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Title: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 17, 2017, 04:46:34 pm
Amber put some shoes on please
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 17, 2017, 04:51:02 pm
Amber
"Are we going somewhere?"


Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 17, 2017, 04:51:41 pm
Yes you and me are
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 17, 2017, 04:56:43 pm
Amber
*go upstairs and put shoes on*

Jenny
*wonder where they're going*

Amber
*come downstairs* "Where are we going?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 17, 2017, 04:58:41 pm
I'll tell you in the car. Ms womzie is watching the rest of the kids
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 17, 2017, 04:59:45 pm
Amber
"Okay."

Amber and Jenny
*hug goodbye*

Amber
*head out to car*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 17, 2017, 05:01:02 pm
*gets in the car after amber*
We are going to go see Jackson for a little bit
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 17, 2017, 05:01:46 pm
*excitedly* "Really?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 17, 2017, 05:04:03 pm
 Yes but before we go you have a rules number one do not say you are stupid number two do not let him tell you what to do if he does ask me if it's OK Before you do anything he says and number three when it's time to go do not cry in front of him if you feel you need to cry do it in the car
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 17, 2017, 05:05:12 pm
Will you follow these rules? If not we can go back in the house
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 17, 2017, 05:14:25 pm
"Why can't I cry in front on him?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 17, 2017, 05:16:28 pm
Because he will see that as something he can use to control you more
I'm not gonna explain it to you it's just a rule you gotta follow now do you agree so we can go or do u want to go back in the house
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 17, 2017, 05:17:53 pm
"I can follow the first two, but I can't control when I cry." *scared*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 17, 2017, 05:18:59 pm
You better hold it til we get to the car or if u feel u gotta cry tell me and you can step outside the door
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 17, 2017, 05:23:51 pm
"Okay, but won't he know then?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 17, 2017, 05:25:20 pm
Just try to hold it til we get to the car okay
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 17, 2017, 10:19:12 pm
"I'll try."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 19, 2017, 08:22:25 am
Okay. Drives there and gets out and gets amber out and checks in sits in the visiting room with amber waiting for Jackson to come out*

You ready to see Jackson?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 19, 2017, 09:21:28 am
Amber
*nod, excitedly*

Jackson
*walk in*

Amber
*run up to him and hug him*

Jackson
*hug her back*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 02:42:20 pm
Watches them hug*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 03:31:12 pm
Jackson
*step back* "You've grown." *glad that getting enough to eat has been affecting her, but more annoyed because I want her to stay as tiny as possible*

Amber
*smile* "Really?"

Jackson
"Yeah, and I think I have a bit too."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 03:33:48 pm
Listens to their conversation as I scroll through my phone on Facebook
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 03:46:39 pm
Jackson
"How have you been doing?"

Amber
"Good. I mostly play with Jenny. She's my new best friend, other then you and Horsie."

Jackson
"Good." *lie and feel bad that I wish she had no friends*

Amber
"I've been learning how to count at school, and the alphabet. I'm also taking ballet and karate lessons."

Jackson
*surprised, and upset* "Karate is not good for little girls."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 03:55:37 pm
Yes it is Jackson.
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 03:59:56 pm
Jackson
*wrap arm around Amber and look at Ms. China* "How is that so?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 04:01:48 pm
BecaUse it is. If anyone ever hurts her or tries to do something bad she can defend herself . And she is good at karate and ballet anything else?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 04:11:40 pm
Jackson
"If someone tries to hurt her she's totally screwed. She a helpless little girl."

Amber
*tears welling up in my eyes* "No!"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 04:13:18 pm
No she is not that's the reason she's learning to defend herself and karate has taught her a lot already
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 04:23:45 pm
Jackson
*look at Amber angrily, and wrap arm tightly around her* "You know better then to talk back to me."

Amber
*look at Ms. China, and start to cry*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 04:25:35 pm
Grabs amber away from Jackson*
Yells* she can say whatever she wants to you!!
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 04:30:14 pm
Jackson
*start to loosen my grip on her, until I wrap my other arm around her as well, and pull*

Amber
*cry, because this hurts and I'm scared*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 04:32:50 pm
*picks Jackson up and throws him on the couc easily not in a painful way just in an authoritative way*
Boy have several seats. Places amber in a chair*
Now either one of you get up from those seats this visit is over
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 04:38:41 pm
Amber
*wipe tears away with Horsie's nose, thinking he's licking them away*

Jackson
*glare at Amber* "Are you going to apologize?"

Amber
*shake head, nervously*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 04:39:48 pm
No she is not going to apologize. But you will apologize to her for grabbing her like that
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 04:41:44 pm
Jackson
"sorry Amber" *lying*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 04:42:53 pm
Oh no... no no and nope. You didn't mean that. So say it like u mean it or we leaving
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 04:48:07 pm
Jackson
*sigh, try to sound convincing* "I'm sorry Amber."

Amber
*believe him* "I forgive you."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 04:51:27 pm
*looks at him* I still don't believe you
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 04:54:45 pm
Jackson
"I'm was not apologizing to you. I'm apologizing to her, and she forgave me."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 04:57:07 pm
I don't care what you have to understand is that no matter what you will be nice to her and respect her. So actually being sorry for something is saying you respect her enough to really apologize when you are wrong
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 04:58:53 pm
Jackson
"Why do you favor her so much?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 05:01:44 pm
Because she is a very important person. She deserves respect. And she deserves to have a brother who actually loves her who is not mean to her and who is happy when she learns new things and a brother that will teach her things that she can use through out her life. That's why. Also because I won't let you continue to treat her like ****. Any other dumb question?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 05:05:36 pm
Jackson
*very upset* "What are you talking about? I love her."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 05:09:02 pm
Nah no you don't. If you did you wouldn't be mean to her. And I've talked to you so much about this stuff something should have dunked in your head. But at this point I'm done talking. Because I see you don't listen. So I'm done I give up
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 05:10:31 pm
Jackson
"But I'm only mean to her because I love her."

Amber
*look at Ms. China, wondering what her giving up means*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 05:12:26 pm
I already told you what you doing. Amber lets go *picks her up and grabs our stuff and walks out goes to the car puts amber in her seat and drives away*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 05:15:18 pm
Amber
*looks at him sadly, grip Horsie extra tight and lean into Ms. China's chest as she carries me out to the car, and then start sobbing hysterically*

Jackson
*start punching the wall, repeatedly*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 05:17:48 pm
Drives amber home and tells her to go inside with every one else*
 I watch her as she goes in and thinks about what to do with Jackson
I think military school is a good option
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 05:57:17 pm
Amber
*go inside, still sobbing*

Jenny
*sees Amber, goes up to her and hugs her*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 06:04:10 pm
Drives back up to where Jackson is goes in and talks to his counselor*
I think military school is Jacksons next freaking step seriously
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 06:11:08 pm
Counselor
*sighs* "He was doing so well until just now."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 07:39:59 pm
Yup I don't know why he not learning very well but i pretty much give up maybe military school will teach him
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 10:21:46 pm
Counselor
*shocked* "Your giving up on him."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 10:22:17 pm
Yup I quit
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 10:46:40 pm
"Why?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 10:52:56 pm
He has been here for a while now. You people are supposed to be making him learn about loving himself and seeing that he is very a important person. You are also supposed to be teaching him it's ok to just be a kid. You are also supposed to be mentoring him and showing him what's it like to be loved helping him with his anger issues disciplining him so type of way to show him that he won't always get what he want and lots of other crap you guys are ranked #1 in the entire country for! I have talked to him since I met him tried to show him love tried to teach him I mean even since he been here I talk to him about his issues and especially how he supposed to treat his sister.NOTHING I'm doing or y'all doing is working soooo i quit
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 21, 2017, 10:56:25 pm
"Some kids take a really long time. He's a little better then he was when he first came to us, or at least he was before he saw his sister."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 21, 2017, 10:59:31 pm
Yeah. But remember that's one of the main freaking reasons he is here for and if you guys aren't teaching him it's not ok to be mean to his sister and all that maybe military school will. I mean they may not teach him that exactly but you can bet your ass. That he gonna learn to follow instructions and have respect for people
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 22, 2017, 10:17:13 pm
"Well, good luck with that."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 22, 2017, 10:36:56 pm
yup. I'm gonna go tell him. *walks to jacksons room*

Hey you going to Military school
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 22, 2017, 10:40:20 pm
Jackson
*shocked* "What? Why?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 22, 2017, 10:46:38 pm
Why do you think
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 23, 2017, 11:29:00 am
"Because you hate me."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 23, 2017, 04:48:00 pm
Oh if you think that I can't change your mind that's on you. I already told you I don't hate you and never will. But you don't learn anything and you haven't changed really since you been here you have showed me you will always be abusive toward amber and that I will not allow
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 09:50:44 am
*yells* "I have every right to be. She's mine."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 12:44:30 pm
She's mine now
Okay I'm leaving because you acting like you don't understand nothing so bye
Walks out door
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 03:16:42 pm
Amber
*walks up to Ms. China, when she walks threw the door* "Did I do something wrong?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 03:17:46 pm
No why?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 04:09:00 pm
"You and Jackson both got mad."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 04:56:52 pm
I got mad because Jackson was being controlling again Jackson got mad because he starting to realize I'm not gonna let him control you it was. Nothing you did
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 05:01:32 pm
*scared* "Does this mean I'm not going to get to see him again?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 05:03:02 pm
I don't know yet I haven't decided
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 05:09:36 pm
Amber
*sad, thinking about how I was really excited to see him and he just got mad at me*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 05:11:05 pm
It will take me a minute to decide
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 05:12:32 pm
*scared* "Is Jackson going to stay mad at me?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 05:13:48 pm
He is not mad at you
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 05:17:24 pm
"He was when I was with him."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 05:18:22 pm
No he wasn't he was. Really mad at me
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 05:21:47 pm
"Then why was he so mean to me?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 05:23:05 pm
 Because he can't be mean to me so he's tries to be mean to you because he knows you will let him do it and not defend yourself from him.  So because you allow him to treat you meanly then he's going to continue to do mean stuff to you because you let him
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 05:24:42 pm
"I told him no." *thinks of how hard that was for me*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 05:26:13 pm
 yeah you did but you have to actually mean no you have to continue saying something to him you can't just say no and then get scared because you feel like you weren't supposed to say something you allow him to be mean to you and to be abusive to you so as long as you continue to allow it and cry and be scared of him the longer he'll actually be mean to you
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 06:08:31 pm
"so I did do something wrong"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 06:09:39 pm
No you just have to work on sticking up for yourself  and not being scared of Jackson
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 06:10:50 pm
"I can't not be scared of him. He can really hurt."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 06:11:34 pm
Well you good at karate push him off you
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 06:13:45 pm
"but he's so much bigger and stronger then I am"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 06:16:15 pm
pinch him. Do something that will hurt I don't know you have to get mad when he starts to treat you like that you can't just be scared. Trust me if you get mad enough and you push him off you with all your strength you will discover you are stronger then you think
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 06:18:06 pm
"What pinch?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 06:22:12 pm
Um I don't know how to explain it but it's like you take to fingers and you just pinch someone as hard as you can
Watch
*pinches my arm showing amber how to do it*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 06:26:01 pm
"He does that to me sometimes. Not as punishment though." *think of how he would do that to me randomly*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 06:26:54 pm
And it hurts right?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 06:36:31 pm
*nod* "sometimes I even start crying because of it*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 06:38:08 pm
So when he hurting you just pinch him as hard as you can that will get him off of you until I or another adult can help you
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 08:38:35 pm
*pinch arm* "I can't pinch as hard as he can."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 08:41:05 pm
I'm pretty sure once you have enough of jackson being mean to you and pushing you around when you get mad enough you will find your inner strength from somewhere
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 08:43:14 pm
"I don't get mad at Jackson."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 08:44:24 pm
Exactly that's the problem you don't get mad so you let him do whatever he wants to you and he thinks it's OK because all  you are going to do is cry and be sad you never get mad
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 08:45:50 pm
"Horsie gets mad at him, and Jackson's fine with that."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 08:46:55 pm
Well that's horsie YOU have to get mad because if YOU don't the abuse will continue from him
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 08:49:36 pm
"I know I should get mad at him. Horsie's always right, but I never do."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 08:50:46 pm
That's because you feel like it's ok for him to be mean to you and be abusive. If you didn't feel that way then you would get mad and fight back
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 08:52:40 pm
"It used to be okay."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 08:54:30 pm
Well it isn't okay anymore. And never really was it just was allowed to happen here it isn't allowed to happen
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 08:56:55 pm
"Something can be allowed to happen and not be okay?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 08:59:59 pm
Yes. Like an example would be like...

Say Jenny took horsie from you and hide him and never gave him back. Then you came and told me but I didn't make Jenny give him back to you. I allowed it to happen but was it ok?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 10:18:51 pm
"No, but Jenny would never do that. Neither would you."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 10:19:51 pm
I'm just using it as an example.
You see how I could allow something to happen but it would not be ok?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 10:22:22 pm
Or what If I see ally hit Jenny and didn't do or say anything about it would that be ok?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 10:23:04 pm
"No. It wouldn't."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 10:24:51 pm
Ok so same thing Jackson was allowed to be abusive to you people saw but didn't say anything so it was allowed but never ok
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 10:27:59 pm
"I understand now."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 10:29:02 pm
That's good
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 10:33:24 pm
"So, am I going to get to see Jackson again?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 10:35:20 pm
I don't know Amber I'm not gonna allow him to be abusive to you
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 10:37:00 pm
"I'll fight him next time. I promise."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 10:40:33 pm
Amber you have to want to defend yourself from Jackson  yourself.
not because I say so.
you really have to get mad at him doing stuff to you because if you don't then it's just going to continue to happen so you telling me that your gonna fight him next time really just means you want to see him again. So you are saying that so you can
because you're really not going to fight him I already know you haven't gotten upset at him yet
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 10:42:37 pm
"I can't get upset with him yet. He's not here."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 10:44:42 pm
I know but I'm just saying I can see that some how you think it's ok for Jackson to be abusive to you so I don't think you will stand up for yourself
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 10:46:00 pm
"I'm sorry."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 10:48:34 pm
 You have to figure out a way to really think about it will you allow Jackson to continue treating you like that or will you just make him not treat you like that you have to figure it out for yourself
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 10:50:34 pm
"If I try to fight him off, he'll probably just end up holding me so I can't move, like he did today."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 10:52:47 pm
Well that's when you tell him to let you go you can kick him or punch him or anything you can do you have to to make him let you go at least until an adult can help you  you can't keep thinking about what he will do you have to think about what you will do if he does something how will you get out of whatever he's doing to you you have to figure it out
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 10:54:31 pm
"I might have been able to kick him, the way he was holding me today, but not when he holds me down on the ground."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 10:55:45 pm
You can bite him
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 10:56:44 pm
"um... I could try"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 10:58:26 pm
And when you bite you have to bite as hard as you can you be scared you have to be mad and have it made up in your mind you not going to let him control you and abuse you anymore
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 10:59:56 pm
"but he only does it because he loves me"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:01:02 pm
Okay amber I give up. If you think that fine let him abuse you
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:03:44 pm
*gets mad* "No! I don't think it's okay. I just don't know what to do because I know that he only does it because he loves me, and that's confusing."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:05:27 pm
Well if you think abuse is showing you love then that's you. I don't abuse you but you can see I love you. But whatever I give up
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:07:25 pm
"That's why I'm confused. He's always told me that he hurts me because he loves me. I've never understood it."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:08:23 pm
That's because he lie to you he don't hurt you because he loves you he does it to control you
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:08:58 pm
"Oh." *looks down*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:10:58 pm
Don't you see? He only hurts you when he wants you to do something or when you talk back to him or something like that righ? As long as you're doing what he wants he doesn't hurt you but is soon as you don't then he does that's controlling he wants to control you and tell you what to do
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:13:07 pm
*stomp foot* "That's mean."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:14:03 pm
 I've been trying to tell you that the whole time
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:17:09 pm
*hear what she says, and then go from angry to sad* "I know."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:19:05 pm
 So yeah you're going to have to figure that out I can't I'm done trying to talk to you about it because obviously what I say doesn't matter to you anyway because you don't even try to listen you only try to listen to what Jackson says and Jackson is the one being mean to you and lying to you basically he's the one constantly abusing you and you allow it I have done my best to show you that I'm not going to allow him to do it but you have to model I had to do it too and I can stop him every time but you have to stop him to it can't just be me and you don't see that so I'm done
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:21:49 pm
*get mad and stomp foot again* "No. I won't let him."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:24:14 pm
Yup you say that now but as soon as Jackson starts you just gonna let him do it
*seeing that she is starting to Kinda  see it more so I push the subject a little deeper *
I guess it's nothing I can do *shrugs shoulders* well I'm gonna go watch tv
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:25:58 pm
*screams, angrily*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:26:58 pm
Walks away and sits on the couch and flips the tv on *
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:30:34 pm
*kick the wall*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:33:34 pm
Girl why you kicking the wall the wall didn't do it
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:35:43 pm
*yell* "Jackson's not here."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:36:57 pm
I know that but still you don't gotta hurt the wall
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:40:01 pm
"Then what do you want me to hit?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:41:49 pm
I really didn't want you to hit anything right now I just was trying to tell you not to let Jackson bully you and abuse you don't have to tear up the house don't get mad at the house and I was saying only fight him if he's hurting you
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:43:55 pm
"but now I"m mad"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:44:39 pm
Will work out your anger on a pillow not the walls
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:51:32 pm
*grab coach pillow and start punching it*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:54:05 pm
Well I'm going to see Jackson tomorrow you can come if you want
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 24, 2017, 11:55:55 pm
"Okay." *surprised that I am not happy at the idea of seeing him, but am just mad*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 24, 2017, 11:57:16 pm
Alright go take a bath and get ready for bed
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 25, 2017, 08:46:24 am
*go and start bath*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 25, 2017, 10:50:05 am
Few hours later ever has eaten taken their bath and went to sleep*
*the next day I wake up get a shower get dressed feed the kids breakfast and takes amber with me to go visit Jackson*
*sits in the room and waits for Jackson to come in*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 25, 2017, 11:28:15 am
Jackson
*enter*

Amber
*run up and give him a hug*

Jackson
*hug*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 25, 2017, 11:31:04 am
So Jackson I brought Amber to see you because I felt like you might want to try again last visit didn't go so good
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 25, 2017, 04:42:32 pm
So we can try this again
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 25, 2017, 04:43:15 pm
Jackson
*glare at Ms. China, and look down at Amber* "Amber, are you ready to apologize yet?"

Amber
*stomp foot* "No!"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 25, 2017, 04:43:56 pm
I told you she wasn't apologizing to you she haven't done anything
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 25, 2017, 04:49:20 pm
Jackson
"She knows better then to talk back to me." *look at Amber* "Your a helpless little girl and you know it."

Amber
"No!" *kick him*

Jackson
*look at her, in shock*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 25, 2017, 04:52:18 pm
Sees Amber kick him thinking I didn't think she would actually do that*
*looks at Jackson looking shocked*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 25, 2017, 05:00:29 pm
Jackson
*try to repress the urge to shove her to the ground* "Why did you do that?"

Amber
"Because I'm mad at you."

Jackson
*shocked*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 25, 2017, 05:02:53 pm
Listens to see how this conversation will go*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 26, 2017, 09:53:13 am
Jackson
"That was really stupid of you Amber. Your so weak that you can't even kick hard enough to hurt me at all."

Amber
*start to feel more sad then angry, look at Ms. China*

Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 26, 2017, 10:17:30 am
You really gone still be mean to amber?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 26, 2017, 10:47:01 am
Jackson
"She just kicked me. What am I supposed to do? Are you sorry Amber?"

Amber
*meekly* "I don't know."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 26, 2017, 11:26:57 am
I think you supposed to see that when you mean to her you rally are making her sad and she has feelings too:
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 09:02:28 am
Jackson
"Well I already knew that. Are you sorry Amber?"

Amber
*look at Ms. China*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 12:47:49 pm
Nah she anit sorry
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 01:40:57 pm
Jackson
"She should be."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 01:42:59 pm
Why you don't be sorry when you hit her
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 01:43:37 pm
"I only hit her when she needs punished."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 01:44:33 pm
And I told you that's not your job anymore.
It's mine.
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 01:55:03 pm
But that's fine. If you feel like people should automatically hit someone for doing something as you say "bad" then that's what's gonna start happening to you. I'll treat you like you treat amber
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 01:56:32 pm
Jackson
*looks scared*
"What works with Amber is not going to work with me."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 01:57:22 pm
I don't really care I just see that's the only way I can get it through your head
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 01:58:54 pm
And see how you just got scared? That's the same feeling amber feels when you do that stuff to her. So I guess you will learn the golden rule treat others how you want to be treated
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:01:37 pm
Amber
*whimpers in fear* "Please don't hurt Jackson."

Jackson
"If you want to treat me like I treat Amber, then you must approve of my treatment of her."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:04:20 pm
No I don't. I can see that you never touch Amber and still treat you like you treat her. Or shall I say used to treat her because if it ever happens again I can make sure You never see Amber again.
*thinking that if I threaten him like that he will be nicer to amber*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:05:56 pm
Jackson
*terrified*

Amber
*start sobbing*

Jackson
*wrap arms around her, comfortingly*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:09:28 pm
Pushes Jackson back and picks Amber up*
Nope you don't get to touch her.
*takes Amber out the room holding the door so Jackson can't come out and whispers in her ear "don't worry i wouldn't do that I'm just trying to scare Jackson so he can be nice to you"
*puts Amber down* sit in this chair while I talk to Jackson *watches her sit down and goes back in the room*
Now you want to try me or what?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:13:35 pm
Amber
*starts sobbing harder, when Ms. China takes me from Jackson, sit in the chair with Horsie comforting me*

Jackson
*just glare at her, noticing that I can hear Amber sobbing*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:15:25 pm
Stand on the door so Jackson can't go out*
You better answer me. I've been way to nice to you now you about to see the other side me the side you really don't want to see.
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:18:44 pm
Jackson
"I think I've already seen it."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:19:37 pm
Nah I promise you haven't seen any of that side yet
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:24:31 pm
Jackson
"Well you got mad when I tried to comfort Amber, now she's crying and your ignoring her."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:26:12 pm
I'll get Amber when I'm finished with you. You think you can do whatever you want to amber that stops like right now. Do you want to be allowed to see amber or not ?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:26:51 pm
"Yes, and I want to be allowed to take care of her."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:28:04 pm
Well if you can't understand that taking care of her is my job now then you won't be seeing her
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:29:50 pm
"If I'm not Amber caregiver, I'm nothing."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:30:19 pm
You her brother that's it
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:32:39 pm
"I've been living for her for three years. I can't really do anything else."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:34:51 pm
I've been trying to teach your ass for the longest you not willing to learn
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:36:59 pm
"Teach me what? I don't know how to talk to other kids anymore, I've been failing school for the past few years, and I have nothing going for me without Amber."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:38:25 pm
Duh I've been trying to teach you how to be a kid for the **** longest
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:39:47 pm
"No. You just sent me off to other people."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:42:32 pm
Because you was being abusive to amber in the house I can't allow that and the time away from you has made amber more independent and she is Learning more
But I come see you and I talk to u I try to teach you stuff u just unwilling to learn anything
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:43:50 pm
"Why should I? You wrecked my life, and Amber's?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:46:05 pm
Amber is actually doing pretty well
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:47:33 pm
How about you go to some other house for a month and compare the difference between how I treat you and how they treat you
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:48:10 pm
"She doesn't seem to be. She just kicked me. When she was in my care, she was perfect. I don't think anyone else would be worse then you."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:49:32 pm
She kicked you because you do dumb **** to her. She got mad at you I don't see the problem she just doing what you teach her
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 02:51:58 pm
"I taught her that I can hurt her but she can't hurt me. You must have taught her that violence."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 02:54:43 pm
No u might say that but by doing something to someone repeatedly that's teaching them it's ok actions speak louder than words you get mad so u hit she got mad so she hit
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 03:00:55 pm
But whatever how about the idea of u going to some other house and comparing the differences ?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 03:05:31 pm
"I'm sure it will be better then you, since whoever they are won't be damaging my baby sister."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 03:09:35 pm
Okay done. Tomorrow you will be with another family for a month. They will pick you up from here and in a month I'll come visit you and see if you like it better there if you do u can stay if u don't you can come back with me if you learn to be nicer
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 03:10:07 pm
"Can Amber come?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 03:10:48 pm
Heck no amber likes being with me.
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 03:11:23 pm
Jackson
"Well I like being with her, and she likes being with me more then her."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 03:15:58 pm
You think I care about what you think?
No I don't okay we'll see u in a month
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 03:17:18 pm
Jackson
"Fine."

Amber
*still crying*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 03:19:58 pm
Would u like to say bye to Amber?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 03:20:59 pm
Jackson
"Of course I do. Can I?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 03:21:51 pm
Are you gonna tell her something mean?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 03:22:57 pm
Jackson
"No."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 03:25:03 pm
Actually I'll make another deal with you first
You interested in hearing or do u want to do the going with another family first?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 27, 2017, 03:40:53 pm
"What is it?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 27, 2017, 03:49:03 pm
You can come home for a month and I'll see how your behavior is if it's good then u can continue being at home if it's bad then you can go to another family for a while and compare differences
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 28, 2017, 01:11:10 pm
*excited* "Really? So I can be with Amber?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 28, 2017, 01:13:09 pm
Yeah but I don't know about it because you haven't became any nicer to her
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 28, 2017, 01:13:55 pm
"Well you just said that I could."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 28, 2017, 01:15:00 pm
I know under the condition that you won't hit her and you will be nice
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on July 28, 2017, 01:19:30 pm
"She just kicked me, and you were fine with that."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on July 28, 2017, 01:21:42 pm
I was ok with that because she never got to ever hit u back or nothing so that's one time that she get away with it
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on August 01, 2017, 10:58:42 pm
"Fine. I won't hit her, and I'll be nice to her."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on August 01, 2017, 11:00:37 pm
And you song control her. You have to understand I'm her parent now I'm in charge of her you and the other kids in the house
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on August 01, 2017, 11:01:44 pm
*sigh* "I'll try."
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on August 01, 2017, 11:13:53 pm
Ok if you mess up you going to military school
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on August 02, 2017, 08:36:01 pm
"fine"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on August 02, 2017, 08:39:44 pm
Okay. That's our deal
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on August 03, 2017, 12:41:57 pm
"Okay. May I see her now?"
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on August 03, 2017, 12:52:56 pm
Opens the door* Amber come here
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on August 05, 2017, 04:53:35 pm
Amber
*wipe tears away with Horsie, get up, walk in, look at Jackson*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on August 05, 2017, 04:59:26 pm
Jackson what you gotta say to Amber?
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on August 10, 2017, 09:28:00 am
Jackson
"Come here."

Amber
*walk up to him*

Jackson
"I love you."

Amber
"I love you too."

Jackson
*wraps arms around her, into a hug*
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: MS.China on August 10, 2017, 04:21:08 pm
Okay Amber. Let's go home. Jackson I will see you tomorrow get your stuff packed.
Title: Re: Taking Amber to see Jackson
Post by: neigh on August 10, 2017, 06:12:48 pm
Amber
*look back as we leave*

Jackson
*hope she doesn't change her mind*