childlikemind

It does not

Okay I have a question.

If ummm ok.. if Amber hit Jenny and Jenny came and told me that Amber hit her and I said oh well it's allowed.
And didn't do anything about it

Is it ok because it was allowed?

No she wouldn't because she has feelings and Jenny would know that wasn't ok and she wouldn't understand why Amber didn't get in trouble so no she would not think it was ok.

What if Andrew was 5 and he started kindergarten right and he went to class and came home and said mommy a boy pushed me and took my snacks and I told the teacher and she said it was fine

What would u say

But the teacher allowed it so I mean it was fine .... righhhtttt?

But what if u went to the principal and then told him what happens and even the principal said it was fine and that Andrew can't switch to another class and he has to stay in that class so now the teacher and the principal is saying it's fine

Hmm but what if that's the only school close enough to home for him to be able to go to? Then what if the other kids started telling Andrew it was hit fault the kid hit him because he was just standing there at the wrong time?
Then Andrew started to believe that it really was his fault because everyyyyoneee else is saying it's his fault so now he believes it... I mean it was allowed to happen so now he believes it's ok

See what I'm saying? Everybody saying it fine and it's allowed and even Andrew starts to believe it's fine because everyone else says it's allowed. Only person that has some sense is you because you know it's not ok and u keep telling Andrew it's not ok but he don't believe you because everyone else saying it's fine but you know it's not


See that's kind of the situation I have now because everybody telling u it was your fault and U believing it but I'm the only one saying it not but u don't believe me u believe everyone else u believe the negative over the positive

Sometimes your family isn't just the ones who are related to you. Family is the people who care for you help you encourage you and be there for you family is people who really love you and try to make sure you are good no matter what happens and always have your back. Even close friends can turn into family I have many friends that I call my sisters because we are so close and are always there for each other. Anyone can be family as long as they are really looking out for you and they have your back.