Girl do you really think I would allow someone to take Andrew? No I won’t unless you really don’t want to be him Mom anymore. That’s why it’s something called adoption. But if you are willing to be his mother step up and learn how to be a mom and understand that you will make mistakes here and there but it don’t matter no one is perfect just realize you aren’t in this alone I am your support system I’ll be helping you every step of the way every body needs help and that’s okay it’s a part of life.
But you have to realize that you cannot sit there and feel sorry for yourself And want to cut yourself or anything you have a baby to be worried about now is not about you anymore everything now is about Andrew.
Will this benefit Andrew? will this help Andrew? It’s just Andrew Andrew Andrew now. these are the questions you have to ask yourself now with every decision you make it’s not about you anymore you cannot be selfish it’s all about him. When You have children you have to make sacrifices and you have to just think about that child in everything you do.
It’s time to grow up now and start learning how to be a mom and knowing that you are not going to know what to do all the time it’s okay to have help.