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« Reply #180 on: March 29, 2018, 06:21:53 pm »
Girl do you really think I would allow someone to take Andrew? No I won’t unless you really don’t want to be him Mom anymore. That’s why it’s something called adoption. But if you are willing to be his mother step up and learn how to be a mom and understand that you will make mistakes here and there but it don’t matter no one is perfect just realize you aren’t in this alone I am your support system I’ll be helping you every step of the way every body needs help and that’s okay it’s a part of life.

But you have to realize that you cannot sit there and feel sorry for yourself And want to cut yourself or anything you have a baby to be worried about now is not about you anymore everything now is about Andrew.

Will this benefit Andrew? will this help Andrew? It’s just Andrew Andrew Andrew now. these are the questions you have to ask yourself now  with every decision you make it’s not about you anymore you cannot be selfish it’s all about him.  When You have children you have to make sacrifices and you have to just think about that child in everything you do.

It’s time to grow up now and start learning how to be a mom and knowing that you are not going to know what to do all the time it’s okay to have help.

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« Reply #181 on: March 29, 2018, 06:24:02 pm »
"I only did it because you said I would be losing him."

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« Reply #182 on: March 29, 2018, 06:34:54 pm »
Girl that’s when you stand up and say no don’t take him from me I will learn to be a better mom. Period point blank. Don’t sit there and be selfish and not try to fight for your child if you can’t stop trying to make it all about you the that’s selfish you have a child now grown up and understand that now all your decisions will be made of of what is best for Andrew

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« Reply #183 on: April 12, 2018, 09:33:39 pm »
"I'm worried that I might not be who's best for him."

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« Reply #184 on: April 24, 2018, 09:46:05 am »
Stop feeling sorry for yourself and learn to be a mom

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« Reply #185 on: April 24, 2018, 12:49:00 pm »
"I'm mostly just worried about Andrew."

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« Reply #186 on: April 24, 2018, 01:07:19 pm »
If you worried about him you wouldn’t be talking about you not being a good mom u would just suck it up and start to learn how to be a good mom. Being a good mom don’t happen overnight you have to learn how to do it. It’s through experience

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« Reply #187 on: April 24, 2018, 05:39:52 pm »
Alison
"But what if I've scared him for life or something already?"
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« Reply #188 on: May 05, 2018, 02:01:19 pm »
He is just a baby he has his whole life ahead of him u do too u have a lot to learn so does he you will be fine and so will he

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« Reply #189 on: May 05, 2018, 02:35:51 pm »
"He deserves for me to know what I'm doing now."

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« Reply #190 on: May 05, 2018, 02:37:50 pm »
Girl you have to learn. Stop making excuses and accept the help be Happy you have someone that actually cares about you both

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« Reply #191 on: May 05, 2018, 02:39:37 pm »
"My brother cared about me."

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« Reply #192 on: May 05, 2018, 02:45:16 pm »
Yeah yeah. But im talking bout a responsibile adult who will guide you and actually teach you how to take care of this child I love Andrew and I’m nit willing to let anything bad happen to him so u gonna have to get with the program and be open to learning

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« Reply #193 on: May 05, 2018, 05:07:17 pm »
Alison
"My mother was teaching me how to take care of him when I was pregnant. There's just so much she hadn't gotten too."